What To Text Your Ex Boyfriend (And Make Him Want You Back)

http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ — “What to send your ex boyfriend in a text message to win him back”

I need to warn you that you simply can’t just randomly start sending your ex boyfriend these text messages. You have to first make sure that you’re sending your ex boyfriend the right signals. To do this, I usually suggest that you don’t contact your ex boyfriend for an extended period of time directly after the breakup. If you’ve been begging, pleading, and apologizing to your ex boyfriend recently, then sending these text messages might have a negative impact on your chances of getting back together with him.

If you have any questions or concerns about this, then please write a comment directly below this video and ask me. I usually do a pretty good job of answering almost everyone’s question, so don’t hesitate to ask me!

Without further ado, let’s jump right into it.

Step #1: Don’t Text Him Something Boring

You’re never going to bore your ex boyfriend into wanting to be with you. So don’t text your ex boyfriend something like…”hey” or “how’s it going?” These are very boring texts and won’t compel your ex boyfriend to write back to you. Even if he does, it won’t be a positive reaction. What you need to do is say something that will capture his imagination and affect him emotionally. If you want to get your ex boyfriend to want to talk you (and eventually be with you again), then you’re going to have to use some creativity.

My video on BreakupBrad.com will teach you a little bit more about how to grab is attention to the point where he feel like he has to response. Again, the URL is www.BreakupBrad.com — I’ll have a link in the description below as well.

Step #2: Make Sure You Have a Reason To Text Him

Texting your ex boyfriend for no other reason than to just “talk” or “just see how he’s doing” is not a good enough reason to text him. At this point of your interaction, you shouldn’t be letting him know that you really want to talk to him. The only reason you should be texting him at this point is because you need something from him. Let’s jump right into an example so you know what I’m talking about. You could say something like,

“Hey, do you remember the name of that movie we watched on New Years? I want to watch it with a friend.”

The only thing you should be concerned about at this point is to just open up a line of communication with your ex boyfriend. At this point, you’re not trying to build attraction and you’re not trying to make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again. You’re simply just trying to get the ball rolling. Once you get the conversation going, then you can start building attraction…but until that point, you need to keep things calm, cool, and collected.

Now, this example text message that I showed you is great for several reasons. First, this example text message doesn’t convey any neediness. You don’t want to make it seem like you really want to get back together with him…at least not yet. Second, the text brings up a positive memory. Third, it incites jealousy. At this point, your ex boyfriend will probably be thinking…is she watching this movie with another guy? Has she found someone else?

Step #3: Don’t Bring Up Past Drama

Make sure you don’t bring up any awkward drama with your ex boyfriend. You don’t want to be labeled a “drama queen”…this is seriously not attractive to men. So don’t ask your ex boyfriend if he’s found another woman or if he’s dating someone new. Don’t ask him why he broke up with you. Don’t ask him about why he’s ignoring you. Your ex doesn’t want to hear about any of this stuff…so never bring it up.

You need to have the attitude that you just don’t care. Send him a message that you don’t really care about anything that’s going on in his life right now. Act aloof and indifferent at this point. This will help turn the tables, and eventually, if you properly use my strategies, you’ll get him to the point where he’s chasing YOU down for a second chance.

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Step #4: Be Entertaining

You’re never going to bore your ex boyfriend into being interested in you again. You have to stimulate him in a way that capture his attention.

Guys can get bored of women very quickly and very easily. That means that if you aren’t giving him what he needs, he’s going to move on to the next girl.

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  1. My ex “thinks” I cheated because of old snap messages that clearly has the dates on them. He told me he didn’t want me having no conversation with anyone I ever was attracted to and I didn’t except for once when that old fling asked me a question about a game, I answered it. I didn’t mean any harm or disrespect but he broke up with me. I haven’t heard from him in a whole week. I’m hesitant on if I should send him a personal apology letter because he’s such a nice guy. Then again I felt like I shouldn’t because I was always good to him and stayed faithful.

  2. I did all of these things wrong at some point after our breakup 4 months ago… I know what I did wrong now, but is there still a chance to get him back? I started "no contact" about a week ago, but it is a more "complicated case" because we live(d) together and have shared pet/animal care duties…
    What can I do to improve my shot at getting him back?!
    Btw, I've also done some of the "good things" too…

  3. We were engaged and he had self issues psychologically, I didn't give him his space enough and once he said he had enough with this relation I started to pull away and informed all the family ..blocked him as he said bad words to me ..after a month from the breakup I sent him a respectful msg that I'll be there if he need anything and so on , he didn't replay and pretended ignoring ..now it's been 2 months breakup what should I do he is not psychologically stable !

  4. For me it’s hard not to talk to him we have 2 dogs that we wanted went an picked up a male dog to mate with the female she pasted away in my arms 4yrs ago so we just have the dad an his baby that I asked for ,for so long an not think about him or no contact is going to be hard when I need help on bills everywhere I look in my house is the things he bought me An driving his car so I’m moving that will help some just sure how not to make the wrong move after 20 yrs please help me on this one,humm

  5. He takes to long to reply also we recently broke up because he lost feelings and we talked today then I kept looking over at him and he kept making eye contact also he acts like I’m not there when he’s near people or when he doesn’t want to talk because he’s nervous

  6. Hi, my bf is ignoring me for 5days already and he doesn't want to talk to me and saying i already lost him. I said some bad word to him that's why he got mad and I’ve been apologizing to him and he said to stop messaging him. It's break me into pieces and feeling so broken. I want us to be okay but he doesn't want. :’(

  7. Hey Brad. I miss my ex 🙁 we dated for 9 months. He left me in September 2017. We didn’t talk for four months. Then he text me December 2017. We got back together January 1st 2018 and he left again January 25,2018. We didn’t talk for two more months till her said happy birthday to me. We started talking a little. But now he’s just reading my messages without responding. What do I do. I admit I keep annoying him so I think I’m going to take a little break to text him again. Help me 🙁

  8. Ok, I'm in middle school and my ex left the school before we broke up. I found his Facebook and said that we need to break up after two years, although neither of us has dwelt on it. I want to make him miss me, help.

  9. I just texted my "whatever ".i habent heard boo from him since Friday. Told him i enjoy spending time with him that im thinkng of him and understand hes busy.then closed off with a private joke.i got a haha weirdo in response.guess he focused on the joke.i think texts are taken the way the person needs to take them at the moment.so i did part of it right.i got a laugh a text and a call.without whining.maybe later he will see the other part.

  10. I broke up with my ex years ago to marry someone else. my ex tried get me back it was too late. I Divorced after 7 years. He tried getting me back a 2nd time but I rejected. when I found out he moved on that's when it hit me. I found out they broke up and I can't stop thinking of him. he works with a mutual friend we know but hasn't asked her to say hi to me like be use to years ago. My question is how can I go about reaching out after I did all this dumping him rejecting?

  11. Well the mistake was mine but not that huge that he'd just leave. It was like he needed a reason to leave so I gave him one. Its been 3 months since we haven't talked but I did beg at the first now I'm doing the no contact method . but he really doesn't care at all I don't know what to do. Need help please

  12. Hey Brad,
    Thanks for all of your help. I had a question. How do you avoid becoming ur ex's backup plan? That's my concern. Him coming back after dating someone new just because it's familiar and didn't work out with her. I gave him a chance to choose me but he decided to stay where he was. He tried to get back together a month after we broke up (mid November) but I wasn't ready.

  13. Hey brad! So… my ex boyfriend broke up with me and we did text for a bit like once every week and then I did ask how he was doing and he did respond but then he said he would like space so I backed of for like two weeks or more anyway… I feel that he blocked me on everything Instagram, text message etc please help thanks!

  14. my ex replied to my texts after the no contact period. He even sent a selfie. But when I ask him out for coffee he declined. I'm not sure If I'm on the right track.

  15. Hi brad. I have been reading your ex factor book but I can't find anything to help me with this issue……I have done the no contact period and yesterday I sent him a memory text. he replied this morning but I don't know what to do now. please help.

  16. Hey Brad,
    I had 3years relationship. Suddenly I knew, he loves another girl. And I brokeup our relation. And then he comes back but he still loves her gf..bt he want to get I am back his life. I still love him. Bt his still live another girl. So, it's very difficult to me. This situation is very weird.. What can I do?

  17. I messaged by ex about the clarification of our relationship because he left things up in the air, and i want to get closer to move on. He told me that he had a horrible weekend and he is a mess, but that we are in a broken up. I asked him about meeting up to get a present that he got me for my birthday. He agreed but proceeded to let me know it would be hard for both of us to see each other in person. well at least for him, "he can't speak for me." He Broke up with me and I want him back but he's making it seem like this hurts him more then it hurts me. I don't want to read into it too much. I told him that i loved him and i didn't want to break up already and i feel like i need the closure of him telling me that we are done so i can move on. But at the same time i want to be with him.

  18. My ex broke up with me about a month ago and we havent spoke until yesterday. We've been talking since and it's going well but i want to be able to share how i still feel

  19. Hi brad, I made a mistake : I spoke to guy he was jealous of already and then I even told him about it , to me it meant nothing but he felt like I opened a door for this guy to want to go after me and he also felt like I went to that guy for help instead of him. Meanwhile I was clueless and never even thought he would see it like that. He got so hurt he even said I " cheated on him emotionally " . While I just had no clue and that guy means nothing to me. He broke up with me and I feel it's a big misunderstanding

  20. I did all the don'ts yesterday and it did a very negative effect on the good closure we had last week. It did aggravate him to a point of blocking me in Social Media. Every message sent has given him a negative effect even if some of the messages are for good intentions, still he finds the negative thing about it. He told me that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore. He is definitely angry. Do you think I could still do something about it? Do you think we could still be together?

  21. Hi there…thank you for your videos and advice…I decided to start to didn't communicated to my ex bf now we were break up this monday Aug 21,2017…we've been 3 months in a relationship…we break up because of he was get angry lots of dissapointment happened and i feel he has a new woman too but after we break up with me he send me messages after a day saying he still care for me and he still be there for me …he told me when he asked for a break up if i wanted to be friends still?…i said yes coz i can't leave without him until i watched your video saying after break up i should do no contact atleast 30 days …i hope it will be help to be together again if not thats okay because ive learned too to love myself and can live without him and keep moving in life…God Blessed and more power to your site☺☺

  22. I've waited like two months and still haven't texted him but he's still dating the girl he chose over me I still miss him so much and im not giving up so I need you to help me I feel like I can't text him because he has a gf but I also feel like why should I care I don't know what to do anymore I'm all out of ideas

  23. What do I do if my boyfriend just broke up with me the other day and he texts me "hey I just wanted to check up on you and make sure everything is okay! I'm so sorry" should I respond to him?

  24. I tried some of these things on my own. Not calling nor texting in one days time ,it made him call, text me and offer for me to come over to his place, when originally he had kicked me out pretty much! Then i sent him a video of biggie smalls singing give me one more chance, however we work together and i think that he is in talks to some of our co workers about the break up, which is why he's acting the way that he is because he's trying to make a point to all of them that he's done with me. I am currently sad because think that he's starting to date another one of our co workers now. I've been with this man two and a half years. I've supported him and his kids financially, i've also been pregnant by him, in which i did mis-carry. His mom and dad do not like me, even though they've never gotten to know me. He lied to me. Everything that he said that he wouldn't do, he's done. I still love him but realize now that i must somehow get over him.

  25. My family doesn't have respect for my ex, the way he's treated, and when I told him, it just made him mad at me and I feel like it's my fault. I sometimes "spill the beans" bc I trust him. It's just that sometimes…you just have to be honest with each other…but that's the end of our story, and I want to continue our story bc I miss him so much.

  26. my ex told me his feelings changed after a fight but he does not want to loose me. So he told to wait and asked me time. but since break up, it has been 7 days he hasnt contacted me. what shall i do?


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