http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ — “What to send your ex boyfriend in a text message to win him back”
I need to warn you that you simply can’t just randomly start sending your ex boyfriend these text messages. You have to first make sure that you’re sending your ex boyfriend the right signals. To do this, I usually suggest that you don’t contact your ex boyfriend for an extended period of time directly after the breakup. If you’ve been begging, pleading, and apologizing to your ex boyfriend recently, then sending these text messages might have a negative impact on your chances of getting back together with him.
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Without further ado, let’s jump right into it.
Step #1: Don’t Text Him Something Boring
You’re never going to bore your ex boyfriend into wanting to be with you. So don’t text your ex boyfriend something like…”hey” or “how’s it going?” These are very boring texts and won’t compel your ex boyfriend to write back to you. Even if he does, it won’t be a positive reaction. What you need to do is say something that will capture his imagination and affect him emotionally. If you want to get your ex boyfriend to want to talk you (and eventually be with you again), then you’re going to have to use some creativity.
My video on BreakupBrad.com will teach you a little bit more about how to grab is attention to the point where he feel like he has to response. Again, the URL is www.BreakupBrad.com — I’ll have a link in the description below as well.
Step #2: Make Sure You Have a Reason To Text Him
Texting your ex boyfriend for no other reason than to just “talk” or “just see how he’s doing” is not a good enough reason to text him. At this point of your interaction, you shouldn’t be letting him know that you really want to talk to him. The only reason you should be texting him at this point is because you need something from him. Let’s jump right into an example so you know what I’m talking about. You could say something like,
“Hey, do you remember the name of that movie we watched on New Years? I want to watch it with a friend.”
The only thing you should be concerned about at this point is to just open up a line of communication with your ex boyfriend. At this point, you’re not trying to build attraction and you’re not trying to make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again. You’re simply just trying to get the ball rolling. Once you get the conversation going, then you can start building attraction…but until that point, you need to keep things calm, cool, and collected.
Now, this example text message that I showed you is great for several reasons. First, this example text message doesn’t convey any neediness. You don’t want to make it seem like you really want to get back together with him…at least not yet. Second, the text brings up a positive memory. Third, it incites jealousy. At this point, your ex boyfriend will probably be thinking…is she watching this movie with another guy? Has she found someone else?
Step #3: Don’t Bring Up Past Drama
Make sure you don’t bring up any awkward drama with your ex boyfriend. You don’t want to be labeled a “drama queen”…this is seriously not attractive to men. So don’t ask your ex boyfriend if he’s found another woman or if he’s dating someone new. Don’t ask him why he broke up with you. Don’t ask him about why he’s ignoring you. Your ex doesn’t want to hear about any of this stuff…so never bring it up.
You need to have the attitude that you just don’t care. Send him a message that you don’t really care about anything that’s going on in his life right now. Act aloof and indifferent at this point. This will help turn the tables, and eventually, if you properly use my strategies, you’ll get him to the point where he’s chasing YOU down for a second chance.
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Step #4: Be Entertaining
You’re never going to bore your ex boyfriend into being interested in you again. You have to stimulate him in a way that capture his attention.
Guys can get bored of women very quickly and very easily. That means that if you aren’t giving him what he needs, he’s going to move on to the next girl.
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